#BringCalebHome: Day 2

Today was all about The Great Wall of China. We visited the Great Wall in 2014 when we came with Abbie to adopt Malachi. It was incredible then- and just as incredible now. There are myths about the wall. First, it is not one continuous wall. Two, you cannot see The Great Wall from the Moon.

When we came four years ago, we saw what we wanted to of the area. We had a good time watching the locals take pictures of Abbie (Blond hair!). But today we stepped up our game. This particular section of the wall is a 3km loop up and down some mountains. The stairs are steep and uneven. With Chloe’s approval, we decided to see how much of the loop we could hike in two hours.

We started out going along with everyone else, hitting the “steep side” first. It was a bit arduous. Andrea and I have both been running and working out, but we were also sucking air on some of the sections of the wall. Chloe, on the other hand, was excited and motivated. She served as encouragement for Andrea and I, calling out to us to “Pick up the pace” and “just a little bit farther.” She had a bounce in her step all day.

We made it to the peak fortress in about 45 minutes. By this time, the crowds had thinned out and we had most of the rest of the walk to ourselves. The views were still breathtaking even though a thick smog was present from Beijing. The walk down from the peak was steep, but our muscles were happy not to be climbing.

We also knew that we had to make a decision. We were either going to walk the entire thing and be late getting back to the bus, or we were going to walk about half of what was left where we were pretty sure that there was an escape route back to the beginning. Thankfully, we were able to get off the wall and back on level ground. The excitement didn’t end there as we realized that we were know outside of the park and had to get back in without our tickets, which our tour guide had. Andrea saved the day and used her Mandarin skills to ask if anyone spoke English at the ticket booth and we were let back in the park and reunited with our group.

We had a great day, making some memories that will stay with us for a long time! Tomorrow, we say good-bye to Beijing and fly to Guangzhou to prepare to receive Caleb into our family on Monday!

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#bringcalebhome: Day 1

We are wrapping up our first full day in China. We are presently in Beijing where we are getting adjusted to the time change while doing some sight seeing. One would think that adjusting to the time would be easier after after a 13 hour flight where there was little sleep-but that wasn’t the case. While we went to bed as soon as we could Thursday night, we were all up by 3 a.m. because our bodies told us it was 3 p.m.

So what did we do today?

Today was about keeping moving. We had the opportunity to visit Tianamem Square and the Forbidden City. The Forbidden City is fascinating because it was built in the 14th Century. It is a beautiful place. The garden at the Forbidden City is our favorite part of the tour.

After the tour, we rode a rickshaw around the oldest residential part of Beijing. The Houtong Neighborhoods go back for generations. A local family prepared a traditional Chinese meal for us (This guy once cooked for the 4th President of China). Then we toured a houtong house/courtyard. This neighborhood sits are the very center of Beijing- a city of 22 million people- and yet it was peaceful and quiet there.

We wrapped up the day by going to a traditional tea house (like Abbie, Chloe didn’t like the tea) and then went to the Acrobat show- which was pretty incredible at times. We resisted the urge to go straight to bed and found a place to grab dinner. Tomorrow we head out for The Great Wall.

Thanks to everyone who is praying for us and thinking about us. You are a real encouragement! More updates to come.

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A New Beginning: An Adoption Update

“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”
Seneca (4 B.C.-65 A.D.)

“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”
Semisonic (Closing Time- 1998)

Andrea and I went out for date night on Saturday. We had dinner at a local Mexican restaurant, and thanks to a really slow server we were able to enjoy a two-hour dinner together. Most of that time was spent talking about the closing of one era of our life and the beginning of a new era. This would, likely, be our final date night in our current family configuration.

If you don’t know- May is adoption month for us. We will be ending life as a family of five and preparing for life as a family of six.

We’ve been waiting for this month to come for some time. There has been the application process and the wait to be matched with a child. Honestly, that process took longer than we could have anticipated. But we are in the process of preparing to leave on a journey of two weeks that is, in reality, a journey for a lifetime.

While we have been slow on updates- whether on the blog or facebook- we are going to do our best to post updates over the next month here and be more active. If you’re interested in following along, follow this page for updates- or one of our Facebook pages so that you can stay current with what is happening. If you’re a praying person, we would love your prayers. If your not a praying person- good vibes are certainly welcome!

May is Adoption Month- and it is almost here!


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Against a Shithole Theology


View of Volcan de Agua from the center of Antigua, Guatemala- one of my most favorite views in the world!

In the the 1st chapter of John’s Gospel, Jesus is calling the first disciples. When Jesus called Phillip, from Peter and Andrew’s hometown, he seems pretty excited. So excited that he goes and finds Nathanael and tells him: “We have found the very person Moses and the prophets wrote about! His name is Jesus, the son of Joseph from Nazareth.” Nathanael was not very impressed at the news. He responded to Phillip saying:

“Nazareth!” exclaimed Nathanael. “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?”
(John 1:46)

Can anything good come out of Nazareth? Nazareth is a small town that was never mentioned in the Old Testament. It was the home of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus. But there was nothing special about Nazareth. It was near trade routes, but not particularly close enough to bring any real wealth. In Acts 24:5, followers of Jesus are called “Nazarenes” in what sounds like a derisive way.

Let’s put Nathanael’s question into our 2018 context:  “Can anything good come out of a shithole like Nazareth?”

Of course, this is a similar to what President Trump recently said when he wondered why we’d accept more immigrants from “shithole” countries like El Salvador, Haiti, and countries on the continent of Africa- instead prefering immigrants from a place such as Norway. The racism in the comment isn’t even subtle. Trump would rather have immigrants from a predominantly white country such as Norway than the predominantly black and Latino/a countries of El Salvador, Haiti, and the nations of Africa.

When we start calling nations, cities, and towns shitholes- we show our hand that we believe that the only thing that can come from that nation, city, or town is shit. This sort of thinking is decided not Christian. It is racist. There can be no room in the heart of a believer to look at people and think of them this way.

As followers of Christ, we must speak against language, attitudes, and ideals that denigrates other human beings. The Bible is clear that all people are “made in the image of God.” Because we are made in God’s image, each person has sacred worth. We are not any better (or any worse) than our neighbor because of where we live, whether we are living in poverty or wealth, whether our skin is dark or pale, whether we are male or female. In the eyes of God, we are loved and have sacred value. As followers of God, we are too see all people the way that God sees them and treat them accordingly.

Andrea and I have been blessed with the opportunity to travel to some places that look much different than our home in the States: Andrea has spent time in Kathmandu, Nepal and Kolkata, India working among the poorest of the poor. We’ve been to Brazil, Paraguay, Guatemala, and China. We’ve been among the poorest people and those who would be considered more wealthy. One thing that we have seen in every place that we go is the beauty of the people and the divine image that is etched in each life. We have experienced the Church in these countries and seen the heart of God beating in each place. Even those who lived in a poverty that I could never imagine radiated the presence and love of God in their contentment, their prayers, and their faith.

So what good can come out of a Nazareth? Jesus, the Son of God.

What good can come out of a like Haiti? El Salvador? Nations of Africa? It would take a long time to list the accomplishments and the good that has come from those places- as well as beauty of the people in each of these communities. The growth that we see in the Church (globally) is happening in places like Africa, and in the Global South (including places like Central and South America). One day, THEY will be leading the singing around the throne of God. I look forward to joining them there.

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2017 Best Books List

I realize that most of these list get done at the end of the year- but I’m writing on New Year’s Day. So as 2018 begins I’ll look back on my favorite books of the year.

Biggest Impact Books of the Year


  1. The Crucifixion: Understanding the Death of Jesus Christ (Fleming Rutledge)- I’m gonna be honest. I’m not finished with this. It’s over 600 pages and it’s excellent. I already feel the need to reread it so I can continue to soak up all the Rutledge proposes.
  2. Evangelical, Sacramental, and Pentecostal (Gordon T. Smith)- Instead of being Evangelical, sacramental or Pentecostal, Smith encourages church leaders to embrace all three positions because they are intrinsically tied to each other.
  3. A Fellowship of Differents (Scot McKnight)- McKnight challenges reader to reflect the diversity of the Kingdom of God in our day-to-day living and in our churches/ministries. This is especially important in a year where we are tempted to live in echo-chambers and hold polarizing opinions.
  4. Hillbilly Elegy (J.D. Vance) A memoir about Vance’s hillbilly heritage, the obstacles he and his family faced as they moved out of the hills of Appalachia, and insight on some of our social and political situations today.

Honorable Mention: The Rise of Theological Liberalism and the Decline of American Methodism (James Heidinger)- An excellent look at the Methodist movement in America and the impact of Theological liberalism that all denominations faced in the early 1900’s- and how it continues to impact the church today.

Most Fun Books to Read


  1. Ready Player One (Ernest Cline)- This book was fun. The 80’s nostalgia. Voltron! And more! I have high hopes for the movie later in 2018.


  1. Thrawn (Timothy Zahn)- When I was in college, I discovered Timothy Zahn’s Star Wars books and The Thrawn Trilogy. The books felt so seamless to the original movie trilogy. I was disappointed when Disney did away with the expanded universe- but completely thrilled when Disney brought Thrawn into the fold. This book was a fun read on the Thrawn origins.
  2. Kids of Appetite (David Arnold): I really enjoyed Arnold’s 2nd book more than his first (though not a complete knock on Mosquitoland). It’s a tale of friendship, compassion, death and grief, and so much more.

Sports Book of the Year


  1. Chuck Noll: His Life Work (Michael MacCambridge)- Ok, so the only sports book I read this year. I thought it was excellent (confession: I am a complete Steelers fan). MacCambridge does a great job of focusing on Noll and not the personalities and dynamics of the 70’s Dynasty Steelers. I have to admit, I even had tears at one point in the book. No other sports book has done that for me!

For the year, I read 22 books. My goal for 2018 is 35 books. I would like to read (especially Theologically) more voices of women and people of color. I am looking forward to what the new year has to bring!

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New Room 2017 Recap


I had the opportunity to attend the New Room Conference in Nashville, TN on September 20-22nd . This was the 2nd time in the last three years that I was able to attend. This year’s conference was head and shoulders above my previous time attending (two years ago).

Many conference that I’ve attended fall into the category of “trainings.” We (Pastors and Laity) attend in order to learn how to be more effective in ministry in our churches and communities. “Training” conferences always have a worship element that I’ve felt refreshed with- but the main attraction is usually the nuts and bolts you receive.

This year’s New Room does not fall into the “training” Conference, unless it is a training in revival.

From Sandra Richter speaking about the stages of Spiritual Awakenings through the life of Josiah in 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles; to Adam Weber challenging us to tap into the power of prayer; Lisa Yebuah preaching how God has a track record of making a way in our places of impossibility; Bishop Swanson preaching about our relationships with one another and our ability to be present.

What was most impactful for the conference was the ministry of Sandy Millar (Founder of Alpha) and the worship leading of Mark Swayze Band. Millar is an Anglican priest who is full of the Holy Spirit (who knew such thing existed?). The Holy Spirit worked through Sandy is powerful ways while he shared on Wednesday and Thursday evenings. Mark Swayze, and his band, helped facilitate worship musically in a way that brought depth and language to the work of the Spirit in our midst. (The picture above is from one of these worship times). I have been to many conferences across the spectrum, but never have I encountered the Holy Spirit as I did at New Room.

This Conference is important because as I write, a shooter has killed over 50 people and injured 400+ in Las Vegas, Nevada. It is, yet again, evidence of a problem in our world. The problem is our human propensity to sin. Spiritual problems need a spiritual solution. Seedbed, the organization that puts on New Room, is committed to sowing for a Spiritual Awakening. Coming home from New Room, I am hopeful that we are beginning to see the first shoots of a new awakening springing forth from the ground!

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Flags, Anthems, Trees, and Forests


I attended seminary in Philadelphia. It was a lot different experience than growing up in rural Western Pennsylvania or attending college in rural Kentucky. I can remember sitting in a ‘touchy-feely’ class, where we would share our experiences and how they formed our faith (not particularly my favorite kind of class), and as I listened to the stories of my classmates, I realized that they were much different than my own.

I had two options as I listened to those who would become my friends: I could discount their experiences OR I could listen, seek to understand, and live empathetically as a brother and a friend.

The rage of the week is NFL players kneeling, or in the case of the Pittsburgh Steelers not coming out during the anthem (save for Allejandro Villenueva). Those who are critical of NFL players will say that the players are disrespecting the flag and the men and women who fought for our freedoms. Those who are kneeling will say that they are using the very rights guaranteed by our Constitution to shed light on inequalities in our great nation.

I think, especially for White America, we are missing the forest for the trees. The reason that we are missing the forest (big picture) for the trees (kneeling during anthem, or other rage of the week) is that we have failed to listen to our brothers and sisters who are people of color in our country.

Their experience is much different than my own. But I had to listen in order to have a better understanding, which led to great empathy. I could have focused on the trees (different people will have different experiences), but I would have missed the big picture: That each person, regardless of the color of their skin, should be treated equally, with respect, as people created in the image of God.

If we were to refuse to get caught up in the “how they are protesting/communicating” and instead focus on the “why are they protesting,” what might we hear? As I have challenged my congregation over the years, I want to challenge you this morning: Rather than focusing on the tree (kneeling during the anthem), ask your Black friends, family members, co-workers, or church members to lunch and listen to their experiences.

  • What is it like to be non-white in America?
  • What do you feel when you hear our President say that there are “good people” among the White Supremecist at UVA in Charlottesville earlier this year?
  • How is your life affected by racism corporately and individually?
  • What is communicated to you when you see NFL players kneeling during the anthem?

In my eyes, the big picture is that I love our country, but I hate that there are people whose experience has been different from mine and who are treated as 2nd class citizens. Rather than expecting uniform behavior during our anthem, let’s uniformally work to make our country worth standing up for all people. (h/t to Ricky Extanus for giving me the thought for that last sentence.)


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